PLUVIONS

Alias | Rain



Byi

Please keep in mind, I'm a nervous wreck.

New people will make me nervous so I do prefer to hear what said user is contacting me.
What I mean by this is, please do not start your messages with a "Hello!" and nothing more. I'd even appreciate a "How are you?"

Tone tags!

I don't use tone tags, I personally find reading people's tones in text a rather easy task.
If you prefer me to use them, go ahead! I'll gladly convenience you, I won't mind.
That being said, there are times I am unsure of what tone you used, so if I do ask for you to specify I'd really appreciate it.

Fandoms?

I don't associate myself with any fandoms. If I do have an oc in a specific fandom (eg. wc) It's just a personal thing for myself. It is hard to find communities that don't revolve around fandoms, so times you need to play into it.I have nothing against fandoms, nor am I wishing to be put into a stereotype just for being apart of a community.If you have a fandom, that's great! I'd love to hear what you partake in and the history of it. Just please don't force me into the fandom. I personally do not see myself joining fandoms.

Did I do something wrong?

Tell me! I take any sort of criticism as long as its constructive.If I offended you or upset you, let me know and I can talk to you about how I can make it up to you. I don't wish for enemies, so I'm open to work on myself!

Oh, you're down in the dumps.

Please let me know if you're about to vent to me or have some issue you want to talk about. I'm a person too and have some issues myself, I'd rather not have someone vent to me while I'm in a negative state of mind.I would love to help you if you have any sort of issue but there are days where I have my own issues I need to focus on, so please respect that! If you really need to vent, feel free to write it down somewhere then send it to me once I'm open for vents again! I'll be glad to comfort you.

You've got drama?

I don't want it. I do not want to be associated with any sort of shenanigans if it doesn't directly involve me, my friends, my server or anything we are associated with.Don't reignite old drama, I do not want to hear it. If it's done and over with, let it stay that way.If you have wronged me in the past, I'd rather not hear apologies from you nor anyone speaking on the behalf of you. Most likely, I already forgot and do not want to remember what happened.If you are affiliated with anyone that has wronged me in the past, I'd rather not have them be brought up or for you to purposefully make me join a server that will force us to interact.

Got a question?

Don't be shy to message me about any questions. I do my best to answer every single one I get, be it from art tips to bird facts. I'd love to help you in any way!


TW

Am I venting?

If you give me the green light to vent, I want you to be aware that most of my vents may contain family issues, SH (Self harm) and some other things. Please do let me know if you're uncomfortable with anything!

Creepy crawlies.

I often like showing cool things I find on the internet, be it a cool looking snake or some bugs. Let me know if you'd rather not see anything of the sort!

Jokes and sarcasm!

I often joke around with feelings of being "offended" and am sarcastic at times. If you need me to notify you with a tone tag of if I'm joking around or not, let me know.

Typing quirk?

I don't have any true typing quirks, though I will sometimes remove the last or first letter of words and replace it with an apostrophe.
An example: 'ello, goin'
If you rather not see me do that, let me know!

Other?

Sorry for not being the best at figuring out what might trigger someone, but if you're concerned about me possibly triggering you give me a heads up! I'll be sure to keep it in mind before interacting with you and will do my best to make talking with me a rather good experience.


Personal triggers

Reminder!

You are not responsible for my triggers. If I do get triggered, do not blame yourself. This is just a little section for those who want to be careful around me and be considerate.I will not be upset at you if you trigger me.

Talking about replacing me

Joke or not, it's something I'd rather not hear. I sometimes may go lightheaded. I personally don't have the best experiences with it.

Talking about abandonment

Be it joking about abandoning me or someone else, It's a harsh topic for me. I'd prefer if jokes or mentions of abandonment steered clear from me.

Car crashes

A car crash is what I personally believe caused the start of many issues within my life, which is why I'd rather not have it be brought up.Road kill is something else I'd rather not have be brought up, specifically cats.

Bird death

I've had a multitude of birds and two, unfortunately, have passed in gruesome ways. I still dearly miss my late companions.Specifically seeing seizures and hearing/seeing slamming doors may trigger me.Please do not make fun of what happened.

Situations that involve romantic cheating

This ties back to my own family life and fear of replacement. Even jokes stress me more than I like to admit.

Songs | Music

There are certain songs that trigger me. Some of these songs: "You are my sunshine", "Gone- Ioanna Gika". Please do not mention it to me, it's really upsetting.But don't be discouraged to show me your favorite songs! I'm always open to expand my music taste and will skip songs I find are triggering in any sort of way.